Looking back, my childhood in that small town feels like a patchwork quilt—stitched together with laughter, scraped knees, and...
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Birching became a strange, secret part of my education, a lesson my sisters never quite understood
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My stepmother swept into our lives like a brisk autumn wind—thirty-five years old, with a past as mysterious as...
The complicated tenderness that shaped my childhood
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My childhood unfolded in a small, sleepy town where the days seemed to stretch endlessly, golden and slow, and...
Lessons I would not soon forget
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I am a Spanish immigrant, having arrived in the United States when I was in my formative years. In...
Mothers’ discipline became the foundation on which I built my sense of right and wrong
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My childhood unfolded in a sleepy little town where the days seemed to stretch on forever, golden and slow....
Being caned was not something I’d told her about
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Up until a certain age, my mother would spank me over her knee with a slipper; hard enough to...
Mother’s discipline was never angry or out of control
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the early 1960s, our small northern English town was a world unto itself, nestled between rolling...
Complicated & unbreakable threads that tied me to my mother
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Although I’m almost 60 now, the memory of a particular winter evening in the 1960s remains as...
Trouble just seemed to follow us
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) My best friend Robert and I were inseparable, our days stitched together by the golden thread of...
Sharp words or a stern look from a parent was enough to bring any mischief to a halt
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in Surrey, England during the 1960s, my childhood unfolded in a world that felt both timeless and...
(gap: 2s) Once upon a time, in a leafy corner of Surrey, there lived a cheerful family in a...
My younger brother and I grew up nestled in the heart of a small English village during the 1960s,...











